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May 11, 2022·edited May 11, 2022Liked by Max

The obsession with sex in men today is, ironically, in benefit of the women. Why?

Because men, desperate to get some shitty sex with a random hoe, need to perform, they need to become what she wants (in some way) before getting in her pants. This means that the entirety of male culture is centered around pleasing women, about getting their approval. In every great period of civilization, even if men wanted sex, they would never behave and debase themselves like they do today. Where the ancient Greeks constantly talking about how to get laid? Where they obsessed with "getting better" to get a woman to open their legs for them? Obviously not. They were first concerned with freedom, security and creating a great civilization, and as a secondary consequence of said behavior they would get sex and a family.

None of the retarded shit we see today in young men, watching women shaking their asses 24/7 in some shitty blue-screen while dreaming of how to get her to accept him and sending her money desperately desiring her attention. If you think about it, even the ideas of pubs/discos, etc, are complete degeneracy. Young men spending all their time and energy for years, several nights a week just to get some pussy... I once said this to a friend and he argued: "hey what are you talking about? the vikings were always celebrating and flirting and doing orgies etc" This is a very retarded midwit take. The vikings would fuck girls in a party after celebrating conquering their enemies, their value as men wasn't centered on getting a woman's approvals, it was on fighting and honor, and then because they were bored they would fuck several women, that's all.

The greatest creators/inventors of civilization are YOUNG MEN, full of energy, desire for greatness, desire to build, to fight, to do what's right... well all of that today is spent just looking for the next ass to have sex with, to get some approval, because if said man doesn't get a woman's approval then he's not a real man.

My rant may come off as incelish but the truth is that I have partaken in everything I have criticized in this post, because at the end of the day you just have to play the game, it's either that or losing. Nonetheless, I believe I speak the truth.

PS: I remember reading somewhere that being a womanizer was actually considered feminine behavior until the last century. Today it's considered masculine. In light of what I said in the first paragraphs it makes no sense to consider it a masculine endeavor.

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I agree. the black pill is that the only reason things were different back then is because women were property and thus men did not have to compete directly for their. Rape and pillage baby.

Men are biologically and mostly immutably sex obsessed. They always have in the past and will always in the future only fight for higher order things after this need is met (or if they are weird freaks with broken sex drives but this is not scalable for obvious reasons).

Unless you plan to de-emancipate women, the only solution is to teach men how to get women so they can meet their sexual needs adequately, only after which will they actually focus on improving civilization for it’s own sake.

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Yes. Your blackpill is correct, and I'd also add another blackpill is that we just can't save everyone, but maybe that's not a blackpill, that's just how it's supposed to be.

You're also on point when you talk about master morality, you don't need the entire society to be like that, just a higher % of men, in fact, when Nietzsche wrote his books, he always said he was writing for "the few", not for the masses.

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Mar 6·edited Mar 6Liked by Max

"...you probably have a lot of resentment and need to process that. But this is a phase. And this phase is a means to an end. Not an end in itself."

This is, I submit, the message that made the manosphere something far beyond a reverse feminism, and made the revival we're beginning to see possible. It's an important message to keep repeating, especially as the follow-on waves with less personal affinity for it replace the early adopters.

Your article does an excellent job of that, and is a solid grab-you-by-the-collar summary.

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